Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Happy 65th Birthday Day, Dad!

My dad turns 65 today!  What a most fantastic birthday!   If you have been reading my blog, you would know my dad suffered a major stroke last Mother's Day.  We are so thankful to celebrate this special day and realize the privilege it is to have this day.  

We took some time to celebrate his big day over the weekend at a favorite spot, Famous Daves!

It is always a great time being with family.

And of course we ate a lot of food...

lots and lots of food!

To much food I am afraid.

Everyone had a blast!

And of course there was cake!


Happy 65th Birthday Dad, We love you!

GET JOY!

When I Need Wisdom!


James 1:5-8
If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking. But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind. Such people should not expect to receive anything from the Lord.   Their loyalty is divided between God and the world, and they are unstable in everything they do.

When I need wisdom...
Playing games after a long day in classes at CBC!
In Bible College I had to do a paper in my Hermeneutics class.  My entire grade rested on that paper.  I had to tear apart Luke 11:9-13.  I mean seriously study it backwards, forwards, upside down, in Greek, in the light of all scripture, while I ate, and possibly in my sleep.  This paper consumed my life.  So many I’s to dot and T’s to cross. 

I worked all semester on that paper.  It was more than 10 pages long.  It was a work of art.  I fulfilled every requirement.  I choose to go to his office and sit there as he graded it.  Yup…that was an option!  I was that confident.  Crazy, I know!  As he read my paper, I sat nervously and watched his face.  I was looking for expressions of delight of a paper well done. 

One of my favorite pics, our dearest college friends at our apt.
I'm sure the boys later cheated at a round of Euchre.
He began to tell me that my paper was written well and it would get an A except for one thing.  My heart began to sink and my face cringed as he began to tell me I had missed the point of the whole passage.  I got too caught up in the details and did not look at the big picture.

How many times do we get caught up in the details of our life, the worries of our situations, or concerns of tomorrow?  We begin to try to manage our life without stepping back to see the big picture and ask the big question, “God what do you want me to do?”  And if we actually do ask that question, how many of us wait around until we actually get His answer? Because if we take a moment and think, who see the big picture better God or us?

The one thing I learned about that Luke passage is that God wants to give us what we ask for.  He does not hold back.  He does not even hold back the thing we need most, Himself (Which by the way is the point I missed in my paper.  He still gave me a B in case you were wondering).  So, if when we ask for Himself and He gives that to us in the form of His Holy Spirit; than when we ask for wisdom, He surely does not hold that back either.  For when we have His presence in our lives, we have wisdom. 

I love this picture of God as generous.  I think we forget how generous He is many times.  I think life fogs up our vision of Him.  God wants to give us good gifts (Matt. 7:7-11).  He wants you to have wisdom for your life.  He wants to direct you.  He wants you to see as He sees.  He wants to even give you Himself through the person of the Holy Spirit to help you (Luke 11:9-13).  He holds nothing back!  And He will never make you feel foolish for asking.  He is a loving God.  We just need to ask. 

When the waves begin to swell...
However, there is a condition on us; our faith must be fully in Him!  I have been learning a lot about myself in regards to this very condition.  Many times, I have tried to live this life on my own….faith in myself that I can get it done.  But, in reality, I can do nothing.  Only God alone can change things, do things, mange my life.  I need to let go and let Him!  You can’t win a war fighting on both sides.  Just like your faith cannot be divided.  It is all or nothing with God. 

On my senior trip, just about to go snorkeling in the Bahamas.
I remember trying to get back to our boat, after snorkeling, in the Bahamas.  The waves began to pick up; because, a storm was coming in.  I was the furthest one out and it took every muscle and every once of energy to swim back to that boat.  Those waves tossed me around like I was nothing.  The waves left me frustrated, exhausted, unstable, and afraid.  When I climbed up on the boat, I was so thankful. 

Much like those waves lack of faith tosses us a round, leaves us frustrated, doubting, unstable, and afraid.   The waves seem bigger and stronger than God.  How can we receive anything in that state?  I am reminded of Peter sinking in the water when he began to doubt. 

Matthew 14:24 -33
Meanwhile, the disciples were in trouble far away from land, for a strong wind had risen, and they were fighting heavy waves.  About three o’clock in the morning Jesus came toward them, walking on the water.  When the disciples saw him walking on the water, they were terrified. In their fear, they cried out, “It’s a ghost!”  But Jesus spoke to them at once. “Don’t be afraid,” he said. “Take courage. I am here!”  Then Peter called to him, “Lord, if it’s really you, tell me to come to you, walking on the water.” “Yes, come,” Jesus said.  So Peter went over the side of the boat and walked on the water toward Jesus.  
But when he saw the strong wind and the waves, he was terrified and began to sink. “Save me, Lord!” he shouted. 
 Jesus immediately reached out and grabbed him. “You have so little faith,” Jesus said. “Why did you doubt me?” 
 When they climbed back into the boat, the wind stopped.  Then the disciples worshiped him. “You really are the Son of God!” they exclaimed.

If your faith is being blown in all directions…
If you feel like you are being tossed around by the waves of doubt…
If you feel like you are drowning in a sea of fear…

Shout out to God, “Save me, Lord!”

And He will reach out to you, grab you, save you, and then He will display His mighty calming power to the storms in your life!  And give you all the faith you need...just call out!

GET JOY!

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

The Book of James


Here is my devotional Bible study of the book of James.  I hope it encourages you as you grow in Christ.

James 1:1-4
Troubles Bring You Joy!

James 1:5-8
When I Need Wisdom!

James 1: 9-27
The Heart of Me

James 2:1-13
More Mercy, Please!

James 2:14-26
To All You "Christians" Out There...Don't Let Your Faith Be Dead and Cold!

James 3:1-12
My Nasty Words!

James 3:13-18
You Think You Are So Smart?!

James 4
My Grandiose Self

GET JOY!

Troubles Bring You Joy



My pastor said one Sunday morning that one of his favorite books of the Bible was James.  I immediately said, “What, What!  James, why James?”  I can think of a lot better books like, Romans, Philippians, any one of the Gospels, Psalms, Proverbs, or hey... maybe even Genesis or Exodus.  Those are all pretty amazing books.  I mean come on little ole James.  I think I have pretty good taste, are not my favorites everybody’s favorites?!  Bwahahaha

So, I guess I need to do a little investigation on the book of James here.

It is only 5 chapters long.

I like the theme: “Genuine faith must and will be accompanied by a consistent lifestyle”- http://www.biblestudytools.com/james/

When was it written: Some say early 60’s; some say before a.d. 50

Who wrote it:  Probably James the brother of Jesus, not James the disciple. For two reasons disciple James died (a.d. 44) before this was written and disciple James did not have the influence or stature that this writer had. 

Who was he writing to:  In verse one we read, “I am writing to the “twelve tribes” – Jewish believers scattered abroad.  Jewish Christians!

With this new found information, I will begin my Bible study right here on my blog on the book of James.  Join me and let us see why this is one of my pastor’s favorite books. 

James 1: 1-4

As I started reading the book, I decided to much good stuff is packed in chapter one.  Chapter one is going to be broken up into parts.  Whoo Hoo. 

Verse 1 captured my attention right away! You will see why in a second…

Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy.

Now if you peruse my blog a bit you may notice a blaring theme around here, JOY and how to get it.  However, this verse is not what maybe most people want to read first in a letter.  It would be like me writing…





Dear So and So friend of mine,
Hey, I know you are dealing with a lot of bad stuff right now; but hey no worries it is good that it is terrible right now.  You are far from home and probably being persecuted for your faith; but hey…you will find joy in it.  Yup…it is all good!

Haha okay maybe not really what James is trying to write; but it has that kind of feel to it.  Like really when life is hard, sticky, yucky, no fun, difficult, sad, and just plain terrible…consider it an opportunity for great joy.  No wonder why non-Christians think we are nuts.
 
I am all about “Getting Joy” especially when faced with tough stuff; because, if we were all honest most of life is tough a lot of the time.  So, James you have won my heart.  You shed some light on how to have joy during the tough stuff.  I love the following verses.

3 For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. 4 So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing.

Oooo go read that again…do it, do it read it again…that will preach right there.  Wow, when we put our troubles in the light of scripture we see we can grow.  Grow in what?  Grow in endurance, holiness, wholeness, contentment, and in the end peace!  I want that!  I want all that good stuff.  I want to be at a place that when life throws all its junk at me I can endure and find all I need in God.  I believe there is where you find true joy. In the end, the hard stuff of life ends up giving you more than you could imagine.  God is so cool like that.

During hard times, we have a tendency to try to control our lives.  We try to put a slow death grip on the things that are falling a part.  In hopes that somehow if we just hang on we can fix it.  Release it, let it go, and “LET IT GROW”!  God is in control of all the details of our lives.  Let your momentary troubles be released to an everlasting God!

And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. ~Romans 8:28

 Whoot whoot, that is good stuff!

Okay, that is where I will stop for today.  James you are moving up on my favorites list.  Let’s see where you land at the end of all this.  

GET JOY!

Monday, January 14, 2013

Get Involved at the next S.O.A.P Outreach!

Here are the upcoming dates, across the country, for a S.O.A.P outreach near you.  Go to her website to get you and/or your church involved.   http://www.traffickfree.com/about/what-is-soap/

I will say this, Theresa does not hold back in her training.  She shows images that are disturbing and you will want to turn your head.  But a lot of the images are straight from ads in magazines you buy at the store.  It may be inappropriate for some; but it is time we get our heads out of the sand.  These are the images our kids see daily, whether you like it or not.

I will not apologize for the next statement...
There are many Christian men who struggle with pornography, more than you may think...half if not more.  But far to many times we ignore it; because it is easier than dealing with it.

I found this on the website, Christianity Today an article,

Porn's Stranglehold Timothy C. Morgan


"Seventy percent of American men ages 18–34 view Internet pornography once a month. This shocking fact is one of many that CT consulting editor John W. Kennedy found during his research for this month's cover story, "Help for the Sexually Desperate" (page 28).

Don't assume that porn isn't a problem in the church. One evangelical leader was skeptical of survey findings that said 50 percent of Christian men have looked at porn recently. So he surveyed his own congregation. He found that 60 percent had done so within the past year, and 25 percent within the past 30 days. Other surveys reveal that one in three visitors to adult websites are women."
And if you don't think that pornography has anything to do with sex trafficking
It is time to wake up and be very angry.  Behind every picture is a girl, many of them under the age of 18, who is someones daughter.  We do not know her story; but if this is what she does than it isn't for any good reason.    
I heard a statistic from Theresa Flores at the outreach.
2% of women enter the sex industry willingly choose that lifestyle.  Are you kidding me!  What about the other 98%?  They are modern day slaves.  
My sister shared this great quote on her blog the other day, you can read her entire blog here.  But here is the quote...
 William Wilberforce on the subject of slavery said the following: “You may choose to look the other way, but you can never say again that you did not know.”

This picture has haunted me all night.  Don’t look away.

From jenmchutchion.theworldrace.org



SOAP Outreach Schedule for 2013:
Detroit Auto Show: Jan. 12
Mission Trip- includes hotel, transportation from Columbus, t shirt, some meals. $250 (for more details, www.domaconnection.org)
Super Bowl- New Orleans: Jan.25/1 & Jan.26
Arnold Sports Festival: Columbus OH:Feb.23
Daytona Bike Week: Daytona Fl:Mar.2
NCAA First Four- Dayton OH: Mar.16
NCAA Final Four-Atlanta, GA:Mar.30
Masters Golf Tournament- Augusta, GA (tentative ):Apr.7
PGA Memorial Golf Tournament: Dublin, OH: 5/25  (http://soapupmuirfield.eventbrite.com)
NASCAR Sparta Kentucky: june 22th
Bike Week-New Hampshire: June 1
Tentative Outreaches (looking for groups to assist in organizing the following locations)
Daytona Nascar- 2/16
NCAA First Four locations:
Auburn Hills Mi. 3/16
Lexington, KY 3/16
Salt Lake City 3/16
San Jose, CA 3/16
Austin TX 3/16
Kansas City 3/16
Philadelphia 3/16
Indianapolis 3/23
Arlington, TX 3/23
Kentucky Derby- May 4
Indy 500- May 18
Michigan Speedway Nascar- June 16
Nationwide Ongoing Outreaches:
Richland, Washington
Dallas Texas
Detroit Michigan
Dayton Ohio

Don't look away!
GET JOY!

Sunday, January 13, 2013

S.O.A.P. Save Our Adolescents from Prostitution

I needed to get angry today...very angry and so should you!

I was able to be a part of an important event on Saturday.  My sister, her friend Renee, my dear friends Mary and Brad Moore and I joined 150 other men and women as we participated in the Detroit Auto Show S.O.A.P Outreach.  It was a life changing day as we learned about sex trafficking here in our own backyard in Detroit, during the Detroit Auto Show and throughout the entire United States.

The following is directly from Theresa Flores website http://www.traffickfree.com, S.O.A.P


"SOAP is an Outreach that aims to distribute thousands of bars of soap with the National Human Trafficking Hotline number and key identifying questions FREE to local motels. Volunteers talk to motel owners and managers and provide them with a quick overview of what is happening to young girls in their hotels.
SOAP OUTREACH Campaign
On her worse night, being auctioned off to nearly two dozen men in a dingy, dirty, inner city motel, Ms. Flores recalled the only item that would have reached out to her. A bar of soap to clean up.
With that in mind, she has created S.O.A.P.-Save Our Adolescents from Prostitution.
The project’s goal are:
  • To Educate Motel Owners and staff on human trafficking.
  • To offer a way for motel owners, clientele and victims to reach out for help.
  • To locate Missing Children.
  • To mobilize volunteers who are burdened with this issue and not knowing what to do to help.
  • To address the Demand side of trafficking through awareness.

HOW CAN YOU HELP?
1) One Time SOAP Outreach around an Event:
Organize a SOAP Outreach in your community. Theresa Flores will come and train your volunteers and help mobilize teams to approach potential high risk motels.
This works best around a certain, high demand sports event that brings in lots of people (mostly men) to an area. Such as: PGA tournaments, Kentucky Derby, Basketball playoffs, Final Four, Indy 500, Superbowl, World Series, Hall of Fame week, Bike Rally’s, etc.It also is ideal for any community with a high tourist population.
2) Ongoing Project:
Churches, groups or organizations can develop an ongoing outreach by “Adopting” a high risk motel or part of town. Groups will purchase a SOAP Starter Kit that includes a DVD to train participants how Human Trafficking in the US and how to approach the motel(s) to offer soap ongoing (daily or weekends only). The group is encouraged to commit to 6 months of 1 Year and to hold fundraisers and awareness events so that they can continually provide soap to the motel.
When my dear friend Mary told me about this outreach, I told her I would be there and so would my sister (good thing I know my sister well because I didn't ask her until a day later)!   Jennifer,  her friend (one of my new favorite people) Renee, and I signed up.  We were so excited about being a part of something so important.  
I had no idea what to expect.  No clue what the day would be like.  In fact, my devotional was perfect as I got up Saturday morning.  
" Let Me prepare you for the day that stretches out before you.  I know exactly what this day will contain, whereas you have only vague ideas about it.  You would like to see a map, showing all the twists and turns of your journey.  You'd feel more prepared if you could somehow visualize what is on the road ahead.  However, there is a better way to be prepared for whatever you will encounter today: spend quality time with Me.  I will not show you what is on the road ahead, but will thoroughly equip you for the journey ahead.  My living Presence is your Companion each step of the way."- Jesus Calling by Sarah Young.
We got in the car, got my diet coke to wake me up, picked up Renee, stopped at a perfectly yummy bagel shop, and drove out to Oakland Christian School in Auburn Hills.  I could not have imagined the day that began to unfold before us.  
As we entered the school, I began to realize that it was a much bigger event than I had thought.  I believe there were about 150 people all together with one purpose at heart; and that purpose was to be a voice for those trapped in the world of human trafficking.  As we registered and got our t-shirts, I could not help but get excited that I was about to be apart of something really important as I wandered the school gym.  
Theresa Flores began to help us all understand why we need to get angry about what is happening in our country and to our young children,   As she began to read the statistics, it was all I could do to keep from weeping in the bleachers   The more she talked....as she shared her story....as she gave more information....my emotions began to stir.  Please, read Theresa Flores story about how she was raped, kidnapped, and trafficked right her in my state, Michigan.  Yup Michigan...not some other third world country...my home, Michigan.  Read her full story here!  I was broken, sad, and then in the very pit of who I am began to burn outrage.  I wanted to just begin to yell out to Theresa, "I am so sorry this happened to you! I'm am sorry we allow this to go unpunished in Michigan.  I am sorry we don't teach about it more.  I'm sorry the Church has not done enough.  I am sorry we are not raising our children to respect human life.  I am so sorry!"  I got really angry and so should you!
Angry enough to do something about it.  Angry enough to get out of our nice homes and go to wretched hotels to pass out soap.  Angry enough that we get our churches to adopted hotels, be the ones to stand on guard, and not let one more child be rapped, drugged, and sold in our neighborhoods.  Angry enough to reach down into our pockets and give money to these type of organizations that are actually trying to make a difference.  Angry enough to educate our children.  Angry enough to write or call our representatives, and protest at our capitols so laws can be changed.   Angry enough to make our vote be the voice of change.  Angry enough to start programs in our churches or communities that are not afraid to talk to men and women who are addicted to these types of bad behaviors.  Angry enough to rescue these children.  Angry enough to give the innocent a voice.  Angry enough to change things.  
I was angry and I turned that anger energy towards loading up soap into boxes and head downtown to some hotels.  We got to pick our places that we would travel to; and since we were second in line, Jen, Brad, and I decided to go for the big dogs!  We picked the hotels right next to Cobo Hall where the Detroit Auto Show takes place.  We also decided to pick some hotels near my sister's church to raise awareness about what is happening around their neighborhood.  


We were pleasantly surprised about the response we found at the big hotels.  Our first stop was the Renaissance Center.  This place is what makes Detroit's skyline....yup we went to the biggest hotel first!  They surprised us with their concern and action they have already been taking to be a part of the solution to stop this horrific crime in their hotel.   Many of the hotels responded the same.  We were very pleased to hear things such as we are training our staff what to look for, we are having a meeting soon and we will take your information to that meeting...all positive stuff.  And not to mention it was great to be downtown.  It was a lot of fun.
The hard hotels came next.  Jen and I grew up near 96 and Telegraph and we knew the kind of hotels we were going to find on Telegraph.  These hotels are not your Courtyards, Holiday Inns, Red Roofs, or even your Super 8 Motel's.   Nope these are the privately owned, super sketchy, wouldn't send an enemy to type of motel we were about to visit.   The kind that you drive by and wonder who in their right mind would ever stay there type.  The type that as you drive by knowing in your heart of hearts that nothing good probably happens there.  In fact, one of them was next door to a strip club...I think you get the idea.  
Their response was different.  Some just wanted the free soap, some blew us off, one guy didn't even bother to get off his phone (in fact when my sister asked him if he cared about missing and exploited children, he said,"I am too busy") some listened, and one guy out of 7 motels actually cared with his actions.  I want to focus on the last guy.  His hotel was seedy, he had pornography on the wall, and you could tell he probably had seen things that should not be.  But he listened and as soon as Brad and Mary left, we watched him walk over to the front and tape up this missing children's pictures and sit down and open his box of soap.  Now granted his business hummmm...well maybe we would question it....but it only takes one person to begin to care, change, and make a difference.  Hopefully, that man will begin to be a part of the solution and not turn his head and pretend that kind of garbage doesn't happen at his hotel.  
We then went back to Auburn Hills to report what we learned and did to Theresa.  We felt that we actually might have made a difference.  Even if one girl is helped by staff, one girl calls the number on the bar of soap, or if one manager decides I am not going to let this go on in my hotel..... then it was absolutely, totally worth it!
I encourage you to get involved, get educated, just do something!   Check out were a S.O.A.P Outreach might be happening near you and go.  See what your community is doing to solve this horrible problem.  Get involved at your church and what they are doing to stop human trafficking.  Since I am a pastor,  if your church is not doing anything volunteer yourself to start something.  
Jesus has not forgotten these children.  We have!  We need to be Jesus to those who are powerless.  
Get Angry,  Human Trafficking hurts the very heart of God, and...
GET JOY!

Thursday, January 10, 2013

What You Didn't Know...

Linking up with my friend, Jenilee!

My favorite book right now is...
I finished up the Hobbit recently and it has always been a favorite.


My favorite pinterest board is..
Ooo do I have to pick just one?  Maybe "Favorite Party Ideas".



My favorite app is...

Word Search


My favorite hot drink is...
Hot Cocoa


My favorite restaurant is...
Cracker Barrel


My favorite blog post is...
I like my "Twelve Days of Christmas".



My favorite time of day is...

Devotion time


My favorite way to relax is...
Sitting in our massage chair.


My favorite season is...
Fall!


My favorite vacation spot is...
Some tropical place or Disney World.  

So did you know all that??? LOL
GET JOY!

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Wednesday's Walk - Tuesday Night Dinners

John and I started to do something fun with our kids.  We decided a few months ago to take a kid out once a month on the second Tuesday of the month.  John and I rotate and we rotate the kids.  It has been really fun spending one on one time with each kid, talking about important things and not so important things.  It has been a blast.  Here is last night dinner with my oldest...

She wanted Chinese and she wanted to try some new things.  This is my kinda girl!
We placed our order: egg drop soup, egg rolls, crab ragoon, sweet and sour chicken, almond chicken, Chinese doughnuts, and fortune cookies.

So much food!
And of course we had some fun and really weird fortunes.

Don't you think those were weird???

And then we went shopping at one of our favorite stores, Michael's.
Spending time with my kids is so wonderful!
GET JOY!

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Old Photos From My Phone

Someday's you are just stuck without something to do. 
So you get creative and do something fun like this....

Have a shopping photo shoot!

Trying on team hats at Kohl's.

Or check out crazy costumes at Walmart...

Or become a scary secret agent....
Or become a superhero....
I am Batman!
Ooooo the fun pictures found on my phone.  
GET JOY!